Am I A Relationally Mature Parent?? Quick Test
What does Relational Maturity look like? When I am a relationally mature “parent” what do my own family and those around me see and feel??
They will see consistency …..
They will see and feel calmness in the midst of chaos …..
They will see healthy relational attachments …..
They will see and feel love coming from me ……
They will see and feel that my RCs (relational circuits) are on …..
They will feel free to approach me and communicate with me …..
They will feel attunement and that I understand them ……
They will see me rapidly return to joy with my RCs on whenever there is troubling chaos that shows up
They will see that life is centered around the entire family and not just me …..
They will feel belonging and at home with me …..
They will see and feel that I am glad to be with them and want to be with them …..
They will see transparency …..
They will see that my talk and walk match …..
They will feel that they can trust me …..
They will feel secure being with me …..
All this sounds like Jesus, Right??